Hello everyone , today I have decided to start new series which might take as long as 365 days , however it is possible to finish it earlier ,all depends from how often I choose to post .
I would love to see whoever feels like it to join, I’m sure many of you will benefit from those lessons , also if you would like to get a copy of the entire book , you are welcome to drop a comment and I will be happy to send you a copy.
Nothing I see in this room[on this street, from this window, in this place] means anything.
Now look slowly around you, and practice applying this idea very specifically to whatever you see:
This table does not mean anything
This chair does not mean anything
This hand does not mean anything
This foot does not mean anything
This Pen does not mean anything
2. Then look father away from your immediate area, and apply the idea to a wider range.
That door does not mean anything.
That body does not mean anything.
That lamp does not mean anything.
That sign does not mean anything.
That shadow does not mean anything.
3. Notice that these statements are not arranged in any order, and make no allowance for differences in the kinds of things to which they are applied. That is the purpose of the exercise. The statement should merely be applied to anything you see. As you practice the idea for the day, use it totally indiscriminately. Do not attempt to apply it to everything you see, for these exercise should not become ritualistic. Only be sure that nothing you see is specifically excluded. One thing is like another as far as the application of the idea is concerned.
4. Each of the first three lessons should not be done more than twice a day each , preferably morning and evening. Nor should they be attempted for more than a minute or so, unless that entails a sense of hurry. A comfortable sense of leisure is essential.
Honorata / please share your thoughts and if you have stood upon those teachings before .
Welcome back dear fellow bloggers and anyone who will come across this post.
It has been truly a long and bumpy ride , I have taken myself on , but with true honesty it has been the best thing that could have ever happen to me .
As I have mentioned in the last post , I have found my person … I am still quite shocked how in a such a short period , you can become so close to another human being , how everything can change literally overnight, but more about this maybe another time as today I have something else id love to write about and hopefully ,gain some more insight of what you think and how you see the stuff which I am going to elaborate on in this post .
So lets start from the beginning
I have been in few relationships myself , I cant tell that they were bad , they certainly were in my life for a reason , sometimes them reasons don’t seem too obvious for us and usually it is because , we don’t see ourselves exactly as we are . Quite often we are portraying ourselves as someone we want to be , however yet we are not .
Not to say it is right or wrong , obviously it is a matter of discussion and/or opinion ,which we all tend to have and which of course will differ ,depending on our life experience and how much we are allowing to heal our mind, body and soul , but let me introduce you to the ways I seen relationships as . Yes ways , because just two months ago I have had a completely different outlook on what being in a relationship is to what I think I feel now .
First comes the child , you know , the one who throw a tantrum every single time something doesn’t go its way ? yeah it was me , in the past ,why was that happening ? why was I so triggered by simple things , and by simple I really mean basics , for example when someone would not reply to me in the rightly manner (right only for me of course ) I would go mad , trust me , pure madness and I cant even blame this child (myself) for doing so , because I truly was acting out my childhood trauma , I wanted to feel heard and seen and all of that what child needs from their parents , yet how often it wasn’t reciprocated in my case. Of course I see where I went south and hurt not once but hundred of times someone I genuinely cared for , but the instinct of survival and proving myself that I am worth the time ,was so strong and clearly at the begging I haven’t seen it as an issue , if I have to be totally honest .
Some or rather all of my behaviours were very automatic , I knew I’m going insane ,in literal way but I thought it is normal way to express yourself and to simply get the things you want , while in all honesty it never worked quiet well for me , I would rather feel even more abandoned and lost than before but I never understood why it is happening.
Now comes the question , How important it is to heal your inner child before entering relationship?
The answer will not be linear ,just like the healing is not but I believe it is of huge importance , healing has completely changed the way i look at the relationship I have now and on the ones from the past .
Of course as you start the healing , you realise why you have been choosing people who would trigger you and offer you less than bare minimum as it is all rotted deep inside of us ,and sooner or later everyone will choose to heal ,so they can fully accept who they are and what they want from life .
So often we think love hurts , so we choose the hurtful experiences and partners who don’t seem to meet any of our needs , we try to give a lot in hope that we will be wanted , where in fact this behaviour has quite the opposite effect…
How often did you over give to someone who should get nothing out of you ?
How often did you blamed yourself for not being worthy of the love and affection of someone , who seemed like the love of your life ?
I believe we tend to delude ourselves with thinking , that we can change someone , where in fact the only person you should focus on changing is yourself , so you know and remember who you truly are , so you don’t settle for less than you deserve , so you don’t chase unfulfilling relationships, so you don’t get into relationship because you feel lonely .
Knowing who you truly are is a blessing and thankfully more people start to realise the importance of self love and self care , I dream of a world where people are as loving ,true and honest ,and stop putting the appearances of someone they are not …
There are people, who will try to come back into your life .
Those very same people, who left without word .
People who never thought you are worth explanation , apologies or simple I am not interested anymore.
All of those however, are basic things . Yet basic and strong enough to keep us bondage to behaviours which we should cut at the very first time .
People will try you , cross your line . And I already feel sorry for whoever is living a life without setting the boundaries.
No boundaries = no self love . You will agree to anything and never see a problem in disrespect. You will not be able to notice when someone tries to manipulate or gaslight you .
You are very easy target and because of that , so many of us will become a victim of someone , even when at first we will think of it in a quite opposite way .
I know however that , as we start to heal and learn to set boundaries, we take greater care of ourselves, we don’t agree with the concept of being a victim anymore and we don’t let anyone or anything slip and do whatever they want to do.
Yes we create our reality, and what we think is real is nothing but a dream, yet we live in this dream and its really up to us , whether we choose to live in heaven or hell .
Good night 🌙 ✨️
Only because you thirsty , doesn’t mean you should drink the poison .
Why it’s hard to let go of someone , is it because we love that person so much or maybe we fear the idea of being abandoned by them ?
After some long time , some of us will get to the point where you will feel like you were neglecting yourself, while chasing the love of someone else. Their love isn’t more important, their love isn’t better than what you can give yourself.
In fact you not allowing yourself to let go , makes it triple as strong and necessary as it actually is .
We do need love and we are love. We are not in position and we never should beg anyone for love . Who are we ,how much we don’t feel worth of being loved , to actually beg someone ,and be with someone who doesn’t seem to bother about us at all.
One sided love is pain, then we hear people say that love is pain , while love isn’t pain , our choices are painful, because if we would truly work on and love ourselves, we won’t allow them situations to happen and we would choose someone who is choosing us .
Hello beautiful 💫 as I promised I recorded a video , it is very short indeed but its the first one as since I really had no time to do more , I felt like I was taken by surprise that today is already May 1st.
Let me tell you something… times flies when you enjoy your life .
Tomorrow I’ll do my best to post longer one and actually to talk more about the things which are important for me and you hopefully. Xoxo
I have seen so many videos ,where they teach about manifesting ,and with each new video they have new formula to follow , manifesting is something we do even without being aware of it, but I know we all want to understand the world we live in ,and we try all possible moves we can to kind of fit it and don’t lose in the game , we want to become masters at manifesting
Yet we don’t understand that we already are mastering this art of manifesting , the only problem is ,we don’t control our thoughts and that’s why we have unwanted circumstance in our life , lack of money, rejection etc .
We think we cant manifest but that’s BS its our natural ability ,whether you believe it or not ,and since thoughts manifest , id rather be mindful of those .
We tend to believe more someone on the internet then ourselves , for example we know something works well for us , but someone will tell us its not the way to do it , the right way is my way ,then we change it and we end up with unwanted results ,since we believed more in what someone else said than what we know to be true for us .
You manifest your entire life , and it has never been hard ,yet now it seems like you cant do it , the mindset itself makes it hard so it will be very good to start with what you telling yourself .
Stop saying things like , I cant do it , everyone else does but not me , I don’t believe it will happen , its not for me , etc its BS but even though it is BS this BS will manifest in your reality by not giving you what you want but by giving you what you fear and don’t want , so whether u like it or not , you are master at manifesting , its your choice to chose what you will manifest from now on .
This is your life and you and only you are in the power to create what you love . Manifesting doesn’t need to make sense , its not logical , nobody even ask you to believe in manifestation , its here and always will be , its up to you , how you will choose to use it , for you or against you , remember you are not the victim of the circumstance , you create your life based on your assumptions , so always make sure to check yourself , because there is really no one to change but yourself .
Isn’t it wonderful how nature bless us with such an amazing views ❤️
It’s Saturday and this post is scheduled because I promised myself not to use my phone today .
I will visit our local park with my son and I also plan on recording some videos, as I previously mentioned, I’ll post video a day from May 1st so I have to get to work ASAP !
There is so many things I want to talk about, it makes me extremely excited, kinda feel like a excited toddler in a toy shop .
Anyway I really hope you can take some time for yourself today . Read your favourite book , drink your favourite coffee , eat your healthy foods and take a lovely walk to refresh and relax the body, Mind and soul 😊
Give yourself the love you have , stay present and don’t forget to smile .