Look Beyond The Body 👤

There is so much more to a person. Than the frame , the body we see and how they show themselves . What they promise and how they love us .

How they speak and behave when we start to get to know them . It is not about judgement and seeing wrong in people, but rather seeing your own patterns , and cutting away everything that doesn’t serve your highest good. Cutting i don’t mean ,judging them ,hating them and cursing them , just accept what you can’t change and don’t judge anyone , neither yourself

Having highs with someone is not healthy, having rough bed experience and calling it something we actually enjoy is rather self destructive. We are looking for pain because we find a pleasure in the pain , instead of being nurturing and having intimate experiences , by intimate I mean more of being vulnerable and opening your heart to the other person and not necessarily “legs” .

There is so many broken people, who think they miss something outside of them , who cherish other person above themselves, and see them as someone special and better. While we are all equal .

I understand and I know it’s a challenge for many people to just even believe that they can change something in their life , but all it takes is taking a chance on you this time and not putting yourself below anyone ,just being equal . I think it will build up very healthy relationship with yourself, as you will be able to see how much you deserve everything your soul crave so much .

One thing also comes to my mind , we often will pretend that we are healing and we need time etc and then we will entertain other things instead of working on the issues we have within us. The longer it will take for us to understand, where we stand and with what we are dealing when we focus on the unwanted , on the stuff which hurt us and make us feel like a victim to our own made circumstances.

I am just like you and We all deserve the love , peace, abundance and joy. We can achieve it ,because at the end the day it is all within us. Nobody can either take it or give it to you ,but yourself.

Is nice to be important but is more important to be nice Michael Mirdad

How to know if it’s love

Thinking back on my past relationships, I must say , there was no love involved.

It is harsh but true . I’m not going to lie to myself anymore . I was choosing my partners and also they have been choosing me ,because we have had something we could exchange .

No. It was not exchange of love whatsoever. But I have moved past it , understood the lesson . I don’t blame anyone. Not even myself because at that time , I did my best , truly my best .

I thought that’s what love is … Well maybe it was love to some extent but not the love I know now . Not the love I feel for myself.

It was always conditional, never given freely , always in expectation of something from both side of course.

We settle for less , because we don’t want to end up alone . Then we end up in a relationships where we feel lonely , not understood , thinking our partner must take the role of our parents , mind reader, our pleaser etc the list is long .

For me this isn’t love . I want you to thrive and be in love with yourself and your life . I don’t want to control you , stop you , blame you . I dont want toxic behaviour to be explained as jealousy.

Love is pure . Love is magical. And if you give love with no expectations but purely because you can share what you have and you are happy for someone to experience it with you ,without hidden agenda . Nobody can hurt you , you can afford to share because you are full of love .

Be love . Love yourself. Spread the love everywhere you go . Remember… it’s either LOVE or FEAR. What will you choose ?

True love cannot be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied where it does.

Torquato Tasso

True love 
Daily reminder

Honorata xoxo

Stop Chasing

I don’t chase . I attract ❤

Today I have really felt soo feminine . Totally at peace with myself, with my body . Loving the ones who loves me and appreciating the changes I see around me .

I have a friend of mine from few years ago ,who came back recently and we are back in contact, like everyday. I have thought that people don’t really change much, but the way he has changed , it’s unbelievable, it’s beautiful change and he is an amazing person , he has always been great but now what we have is a real connection.

Life might not always be easy on us . But it sure teaches us and show us that no matter what THIS TOO SHALL PASS 🤍

Happy Tuesday 😊

Once and for all , I’ll never let anyone walk all over me . ✌

Today I was hoping to get a good rest before my last night shift ,unfortunately more drama came out from work. Not necessarily something I like , I’d say i even hate the fact that people thrive of drama and of other people feeling bad.

I have decided that I’ll be honest and so I went on with future steps to make sure , some people get what they deserve.

I’m last to complain on anyone , last to make any statements which could hurt someone , but I really am over , hearing from everyone around, how someone is talking behind my back and I just do nothing. I have done what I should and let’s say that tables have turned.

At least Im not a liar and I speak facts . Not BS.

Stay focused and done let ppl walk all over you x


I really wish i could write something proper or encouraging today but honestly, I have been feeling like a little piece of S*** today .

Emotions running WILD ! I MEAN WILD AS HECK !

One second I’m happy and another I’m sad , then again I question everything i have ever done .

Just to talk myself out of it and to be understanding… just TO ! Blame myself for everything again.

I really dont know which planet is f with me right now but honestly I don’t like that.

Screaming at the top of my lungs in the car after work did help me for few minutes…

Something ain’t right with this for sure . I’m literally so sick and tired of myself today .

I know how important it is to feel your emotions, but I’m not even in the slightest sure , why all of the sudden its all coming up at me . Like everything at once !

There is one hope however. In times like this I just love to disappear. I said it’s a hope , but Is it really? Running away and not dealing with everything around me … I guess it’s a bad idea .

I don’t wanna go round in circles and repeat same things over and over .

I’m literally so fed up with myself i could sell myself a punch in the face .

Well that idea actually made me giggle so maybe that’s something I should consider 😂

I really hope you dealing well and stay happy 🤍

A bad day is not the end of the world. But it can be end of my sanity 😬 ( JK)

Love H .

This too shall pass 🙌

Be present with your feeling

Don’t deny them

Closing off the heart of yours can only bring more pain

Remember to stay present, especially when times get tough

When you start doubting yourself, don’t let that voice make you spiral

Make a habit of affirming for the thing you want and don’t let the old self bring you down anymore

It seems easier and known but is it better in the long run?

We have two choices , to give it all up or to give all in ! And I’m definitely not giving up on myself and so you should not do it as well .

Today is a weird day …. way too emotional, but as everything… this too shall pass 🙌

Love H .

When in doubt….

Sometimes we need to understand that we are standing in the damn door to our own happiness .!

That we are blocking ourselves from all the amazing things ,which could be given unto us ! If only we could relax a bit and not overthink every situation, circumstances and all the unnecessary things .

We like to have control over everything. Sad but true . We think that if we are about to receive something, then from logical point , we simply must know ,where is it coming from . But hey , by now we should know is utter BS !

Think how happy you were when you have received something you always dreamt of ! When you told yourself, that you would never imagined that it will come to you , especially the way it came and probably even the capacity!

So hey ,let’s make a deal. Except the unexpected, go with the flow and always, but seriously guys ! ALWAYS! repeat to yourself WHAT’S IN FRONT OF ME IS UNKNOWN BUT ALWAYS IN MY FAVOUR. Or whatever statement aka affirmation you would like to use . When in doubt or about to overthink, repeat it like a mantra ! MAKE IT YOUR MANTRA ! To expect only positive outcomes in all areas of your life , whether is love , health, financial etc .

We deserve it ,and it’s time to start claiming what’s yours ! ❤

Love H.

Fantastic Day

Today was truly an amazing day 💛 I have done my final Christmas shopping 🛍

Went for a lovely little date which was absolutely fabulous, sometimes simple things ,are those things we need , just a walk ,coffee and lovely company.

I have been also preparing the food for Christmas and actually I just finished , it’s 11.30pm but despite being tired as heck , I’m also very happy .

I see how important it is to appreciate the little things in life , things which doesn’t seem to make any difference, yet they make a huge one .

Love hard and never give up ❤ don’t be scared to be yourself, I’m usually called weird but there is someone out there ,who will appreciate that weirdness 🤍


You don’t look depressed

How often do we think that we KNOW how depression looks like? HOW OFTEN are we deceiving ourselves in thinking that it is not something we will experience? Or that we never experienced it ? How many times have you thought, its not a big deal, I need to stop being so emotional because someone might think I’m a freak ?

I don’t know about you , but i know that I have been rejecting even the idea of possibility for me to be even slightly depressed.

Depression should be visible! You are happy everyday! You smile ! You don’t make any drama ! What ? Depression? Nah stop that now ! It’s just a bad day . ..” how many times we hear that from someone or even we tell it to ourselves? I’m sure many more times than it is necessary.

I thought as well like many of the people I know , that I don’t even have a right to think, that at any point I could be depressed! ” because why?” You have no problems !how many of us heard it ? Sure millions! But no problem is too big or too small !

I have been checking my old photos , exactly from the last two years, also some videos , and maybe I wasn’t on some verge of depression. .. or maybe I actually was !

But let me tell you ,that what I have seen and heard ,was simply a cry for help , yet nobody heard me ! And somehow I shall say it passed ? How ? First I mediate daily and have my own daily routine which helps me a lot but just now I have come to the understanding that I did struggled a lot! But I was very good at hiding it. Nobody would ever say that I have any problems . Yet there was quite a few in that period of time.

So let’s just remember, Depression has many faces . On me I could see mainly smiling face with dead feeling inside . That’s probably why I hate looking back at the photos from the last two years….

We need to learn to feel and express ourselves more and more each day. I think that even now I’d benefit from going to the secluded place and just shout whatever I feel out loud. Let it leave my body, don’t let it weight me down .

I hope you all staying safe 💓

Love and courage ❤