Look Beyond The Body ๐Ÿ‘ค

There is so much more to a person. Than the frame , the body we see and how they show themselves . What they promise and how they love us .

How they speak and behave when we start to get to know them . It is not about judgement and seeing wrong in people, but rather seeing your own patterns , and cutting away everything that doesn’t serve your highest good. Cutting i don’t mean ,judging them ,hating them and cursing them , just accept what you can’t change and don’t judge anyone , neither yourself

Having highs with someone is not healthy, having rough bed experience and calling it something we actually enjoy is rather self destructive. We are looking for pain because we find a pleasure in the pain , instead of being nurturing and having intimate experiences , by intimate I mean more of being vulnerable and opening your heart to the other person and not necessarily “legs” .

There is so many broken people, who think they miss something outside of them , who cherish other person above themselves, and see them as someone special and better. While we are all equal .

I understand and I know it’s a challenge for many people to just even believe that they can change something in their life , but all it takes is taking a chance on you this time and not putting yourself below anyone ,just being equal . I think it will build up very healthy relationship with yourself, as you will be able to see how much you deserve everything your soul crave so much .

One thing also comes to my mind , we often will pretend that we are healing and we need time etc and then we will entertain other things instead of working on the issues we have within us. The longer it will take for us to understand, where we stand and with what we are dealing when we focus on the unwanted , on the stuff which hurt us and make us feel like a victim to our own made circumstances.

I am just like you and We all deserve the love , peace, abundance and joy. We can achieve it ,because at the end the day it is all within us. Nobody can either take it or give it to you ,but yourself.

Is nice to be important but is more important to be nice Michael Mirdad

How to manifest anything you want .

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I have seen so many videos ,where they teach about manifesting ,and with each new video they have new formula to follow , manifesting is something we do even without being aware of it, but I know we all want to understand the world we live in ,and we try all possible moves we can to kind of fit it and don’t lose in the game , we want to become masters at manifesting

Yet we don’t understand that we already are mastering this art of manifesting , the only problem is ,we don’t control our thoughts and that’s why we have unwanted circumstance in our life , lack of money, rejection etc .

We think we cant manifest but that’s BS its our natural ability ,whether you believe it or not ,and since thoughts manifest , id rather be mindful of those .

We tend to believe more someone on the internet then ourselves , for example we know something works well for us , but someone will tell us its not the way to do it , the right way is my way ,then we change it and we end up with unwanted results ,since we believed more in what someone else said than what we know to be true for us .

You manifest your entire life , and it has never been hard ,yet now it seems like you cant do it , the mindset itself makes it hard so it will be very good to start with what you telling yourself .

Stop saying things like , I cant do it , everyone else does but not me , I don’t believe it will happen , its not for me , etc its BS but even though it is BS this BS will manifest in your reality by not giving you what you want but by giving you what you fear and don’t want , so whether u like it or not , you are master at manifesting , its your choice to chose what you will manifest from now on .

This is your life and you and only you are in the power to create what you love . Manifesting doesn’t need to make sense , its not logical , nobody even ask you to believe in manifestation , its here and always will be , its up to you , how you will choose to use it , for you or against you , remember you are not the victim of the circumstance , you create your life based on your assumptions , so always make sure to check yourself , because there is really no one to change but yourself .

Honorata Czestochowska
Honorata Czestochowska

Ask you shall receive ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ’ซ

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I have asked for a meaningful song to be shown to me today and I received this one . I am learning French however I did not understood it at the beginning but it has spoken to my soul and made me feel absolutely at peace and gave me some kind of strength.

I have checked the lyrics now and I can see why it actually happened ๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ’› I am happy beyond words ๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ’ซ

Hope you will enjoy it as well ๐Ÿฆ„โค๏ธ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ’›

Honorata

And don’t tell me I haven’t warned you

Today I have realised that the more I learn ,the less I know.

Also the more of a understanding I have within myself, the less I need to be around other people. And my own company is absolutely the best .

I see why now , I have put myself on hold and didn’t want to go through that all healing, deep inside I must have knows I’m just not ready , i wasn’t ready two years ago even in the slightest… which is crazy to think , before I thought i know life and now … i know nothing but that i want to be happy, at peace and content .Things I see and understand now , I would reject without a thought in the past . Now it is what it is , because its truly just our perception and opinions.

Love Honorata x โค๏ธ

Affirmations to BOOST Your Confidence

I trust myself, I believe in me and I have confidence in myself.

I am brave , I am bold , I am strong !

I deserve the best and I accept the best

I will not compare myself to strangers on the Internet

I can achieve anything I set my mind to

I am in control

I have endless possibilities

I am making my dreams a reality

I am in control of my thoughts, feelings and choices

I am courageous and I stand up for myself

Today is going to be a great day

Love & Light ๐Ÿ’• H .

Are You Spiritual ?

A little bit over 2 years ago , when I first started my healing journey ,or spiritual journey as other might call it , I didn’t quite understand what is actually going on with me .

the times where I have been happy sad , were so normal in those times that at some point I thought ,that’s actually who I am .

I started to think that ,there is possibly no way ,that I’m going through spiritual journey , I have read so many things on this subject and I always seemed like I’m being far behind any expectations regarding to that journey .

I felt like there is so many things I will have to change within myself to become a spiritual person ,that at some point I thought , what’s the actual point in doing that , am I not good enough now ? do I really need to wake up 4am , meditate then do yoga , move to some place where i can enjoy the nature on daily basis etc , oh go vegan ? buy crystals ? start reiki and be happy go lucky at all time ? even when I feel like a piece of shit ?

No , you don’t need to do all that , and sooner you accept it ,the easier the journey and healing will be , well maybe healing is not the easy one ,because we clearly have so many things to work on but looking back , I know every pain and day down was necessary, the same with now

I feel kind of OK but not really , and what’s makes me sad is the fact that I don’t really know yet , what is the issue now . But I’m willing to take that time and see what will come up .

Shadow work , meditation ,journaling , whatever will come to your mind , i have done it , yet the most helpful tool for me was to record my memories, I started to do that and the amount of emotions going out while I was recording myself was absolutely unbelievable

I never thought that them things can make me so upset , I was crying like never before and yet them memories , didn’t seem to be so hard on me or difficult in that matter , they were not traumatic , sometimes I would even say they were silly and unimportant yet they made me realise how much I’m holding myself back ,because of them past events .

Take the time you need , heal at your own pace , don’t explain yourself to anyone this is your journey and you are the one who will have to deal with everything . Be strong and believe in yourself . I know that sometimes we need someone to understand us and we might struggle when we all alone in that , I know that feeling because I go through it alone since the start, yet I know how important it is for me to never give up on myself and to fight for myself and do what I love and want to do the most .

Honorata Czestochowska
Honorata Czestochowska

Not Feeling Worthy

I have noticed another pattern within myself, which makes my life harder .Why harder ? well I don’t allow myself to enjoy being treated by others , I always think that I should treat other people ,whether is by giving my attention , buying stuff and making sure they happy , but I don’t allow anyone to do the same for me ,even if they want to or actually do something , I feel like I should not accept it .

I came to the conclusion that it sure must come from the feeling of worthiness. Did I really needed to go through all of the things in my life , just to be 32 and notice that ? sure not , but here I am , broken into million pieces and thinking of the way I can change something , I thought I never had a problem with.

So many times I have been trying to reason my behaviour and explain myself ,whether to my family or friends , why I don’t like being treated by others or why I would not accept something .

It always came as I don’t want to use anyone ,yet id allow people to use me … I don’t want them to spend their hard worked money on me ,there are more important things than pleasing me .

Where in fact it all comes down to …. not feeling worthy of any of that I actually wanted , because lets be honest , who don’t want good tings in life .

I always felt that whatever I want will come but I have always conditioned that , saying things like , not from here , not from there etc . and who the heck am I to say where it will come from ?

I really had no idea what I was actually doing , and sure it also shows that we human beings are learning and evolving all the time , whether we believe it or not .

Many times we tell our self that we want this or that ,but are we really ready to accept it ? are we open to receive what we ask for ? let me tell you , I was not .

And as much as I hate the fact that it was me all along ,who was holding myself back , am also kind of relieved , because I will be more mindful of my thought pattern.

I have been in constant battle when it comes to my energy , as I felt that I’m more masculine than I would like to be. Not that it is something wrong but I felt like it doesn’t help me , because most of the times , for example in relationships , I was trying to be the one who lead , the one who will pay for everything ,treat the other person and give it all ,for what? then I was mad ,because I literally put myself into the position ,when I had to do everything by myself ,because my partners were used to ,me being the one who plans everything and make sure everyone is happy . ( everyone except me)

It is a really huge eye opening for me , even though I’m constantly learning and try to work on myself ,it amaze me how long it took me , to actually get to this conclusion and to understand that it is actually the feeling of not being worthy and not too much of the masculine energy . (or maybe its both?)

I hope you are all having a wonderful week x

Honorata Czestochowska
Honorata Czestochowska

Seek Happiness

What does that phrase “seek happiness ” mean ?

In todays world , people think of happiness as doing and experiencing things ,they enjoy.

Perhaps happiness would involve , eating your favourite food , going out with your friends , exotic holidays , buying new bag you always dreamt of and such things ,which would bring you the joy in the moment ,like reading a book curled up in bed.

All of those are certainly an ingredients of a good life as stated by Aristotle , but he did not believe that it is the best way to live life by going out and seeking pleasure in these ways.

In his view that would not be a good life , we might feel like those things bring us happiness , but is it a happiness or some sort of pleasant sensation?

We are used to think that happiness is about how we feel and nothing more !.

Think of a flower. If you water it, give it enough light ,maybe feed it a little, then it will grow and bloom. If you neglect it ,keep it in the dark, let insects nibble its leaves, allow it to dry out, it will wilt and die ,or at best end up as a very unattractive plant. Human being can flourish like plants too, though unlike plants we make choice for our self! We decide what we want to do and be .

From Aristotle perspective , happiness is the sense of overall achievement in life, and what can be affected by others you care about , which shows that events outside your control and knowledge affect that. He also believed that whether you are happy or not depends partly on good luck.

The main question ,we might ask is What can we do to increase our chance of happiness? and Aristotle answer to that question is Develop the right kind of character.! by feeling the right kind of emotions at the right time ,you will be led to behave well.

Good patterns and behaviours are virtues; bad ones are vices.

โ€” Aristotle

Honorata Czestochowska
Honorata Czestochowska

Things that lower your vibration

When our vibration decreases ,We end up feeling low, depressed, fearful and insecure.

  • Oversleeping
  • Under- sleeping
  • Poor diet
  • No exercise
  • People pleasing
  • Excessive stimulation
  • Gossiping
  • Toxic friends
  • Fueling drama
  • Constant complaining
  • Ungratefulness
  • Negative self talk

H.

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